No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin or his background or his religion people must learn to hate and if they can learn to hate they can be taught to love for love comesore naturally to the human heart that its opposite. Even in the grimmer of humanity in one of the guards perhaps just for a second but it was enough to reassure me and keep me going man goodness is a flame that can be hidden but never extinguished. In life every men has twon obligations obligations to his family to his parents to his wife and children and he has an obligation to his people his community his country In a Civil. and abilities but in a country like. South Africa it was almost impossible for a man of my both and colour to fulfil both of those obligations in South Africa a man who tried to fulfil his duty to his people was inevitably ripped from his family and his home and was forced to live a lift apart a twilight experience of secrecy and rebellion I did not in the beginning chooosse to place my people above my family but in attempting to serve my people i found that I was prevented from fulfilling my obligations as a son a brother a father and husband.